Top 10 Tips for Planning the Perfect Hen Weekend

Whether you’re the maid of honour or the bride’s partner-in-crime, planning a hen weekend is no small task. Between finding dates, collecting money, and keeping the bride happy, there’s a lot to juggle. So here are our top 10 tips for pulling off a weekend everyone will rave about.

1. Start early

The earlier you start, the more options you’ll have for accommodation, activities, and flights. Six months out is ideal, especially for bigger groups.

2. Agree the budget up front

Avoid awkwardness later by agreeing on a clear budget per person, including accommodation, activities, and transfers.

3. Pick the right destination

Think about the group. Is it all-out nightlife, relaxed beach vibes, or something classy and cultural? From Lisbon to Marbella, each destination brings its own flavour.

4. Keep communication simple

Create a WhatsApp group for quick updates and polls. One organiser, one plan. No endless side chats!

5. Choose a few key activities

Too many activities can feel rushed. Choose two or three highlights and leave space for downtime (and hangovers).

6. Think about the bride

The weekend’s for her, not the group’s wishlist. Make sure her favourite things. Music, food, or surprises are at the centre.

7. Collect money early

Use group payment links or a single organiser pot. Nothing kills the vibe like chasing payments on the day.

8. Coordinate outfits and themes

A coordinated look makes for amazing photos. From classy white dresses to bold neon, pick something that matches the mood.

9. Add a surprise

A small touch like a custom sash, photo book, or arrival drink makes the weekend extra special.

10. End with a bang

Plan a memorable finale. Dinner at sunset, a private boat party, or a champagne toast to the bride-to-be.

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